A thought about a past Situation
Examples
- “When I was a kid, I often heard my dad in another room talking so loud that I would flinch, saying things like “That’s bullshit!” to my mom, and I was terrified, because I needed to know my mom and dad were okay”
- “I remember last time I heard you say ‘I’ll get it done by tomorrow’, then 2 days passed and, when I checked, it still wasn’t done. I was frustrated because I need to know things will be okay”
- “Two years ago, I remember John, this guy, told me to “just come” to an event, and when we arrived, all the lights were off, but then they suddenly lit up and I saw my 2 best friends who I thought were in a different country. I was so happy to see them, and to know that John organized this, because I got such connection knowing I have people like them in my life”